across it but never focus on it and it was a request for his military discharge papers and written from melbourne, florida, and had a more recent address for him. so, i immediately started searching ooabout wear -- obituaries and i couldn't find one. so i working with another friend of mine, a dean, who helped me a lot, we -- by 9:00 the next morning we were on the phone with george and when we called him, i said, george, this is martha mackallum i'm hair gray's grand niece and there was this long silence, and he said to me, martha, i think about harry every day hitch was my best friend and he started to cry on then phone, and his wife got upset in the background, she says, george -- they have a great boston accent just like my granddaughter. the said, george, don't talk bit it anymore, and she said he has to go and then i felt terrible that maybe we had upset him but we reconnected and he is just one of those wonderful men, the kindest people i've ever met and he was just like so many of these men, he said i've often thought that harry would have lived a better life than i did and it's not true